Saturday, April 8, 2017

Seven Core Issues in Adoption

I would HIGHLY RECOMMEND that anyone who has:

- been adopted
- loves someone who has been adopted
-has placed a child for adoption
-has had their parental rights terminated and had another family adopt their child
-loves someone who has placed a child for adoption
-loves someone whose child has been adopted (not necessarily by their own choice)
-has adopted
- who is considering adopting , or
-loves someone who is considering adopting or has adopted

[Maybe not so familiar that you have to study them and pass a quiz type familiar- but familiar enough with the concept that adoption is a complex issue and as wonderful as it CAN be, there is loss felt by all involved in adoption which needs to be recognized.]

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This research was compiled in by two women, Deborah N. Silverstein and Sharon Kaplan Roszia, in the 1980s. 
To learn more about their findings click

What struck me most about the research presented in these charts is that:

*  Grief and Loss seem to be the main issues of adoption trauma but I appreciated learning more about other areas that affect ALL members of the adoption triad, including rejection, guilt and shame, identity, intimacy, and mastery/control.

*Each of these core issues appear and reappear at different stages of development and in much more than just one arena of a person’s life.

*I found it particularly interesting that birthparent grief can be “postponed” for up to 15 years.  Thank goodness for awareness and support groups.

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